It doesn't matter what circumstances you bring into your parenting game - five years in the life of your child marks a milestone. Five usually means going to school, conversations, opinions, maybe a little reading, writing ... a definite sense of who this kid is. They're getting big! You look at them, and those baby faces are starting to chisel out some. They're taller... they talk back.
They suddenly have this whole new world of school and friends and ideas.
What happened to that teeny little bundle of warmth you used to wrap up tight like a papoose? The one who woke up every two hours of the night demanding to be fed? The one who made you suffer through countless years of diapers, potty training and tears?
They turned five.
For some of us though, watching your kid turn five takes on a whole other meaning besides the norm.
If you've ever had a doctor tell you your son won't make it past the week he was born... well, then ...watching him turn five is like soaring through the clouds on a bright and sunny day. You feel like you're wearing wings and reaching for the sun.
It's a special guardian angel who made this happen. And we hope her wings have carried her to the farthest reaches of the heavens.
This is what five looks like on a clear day.

The birthday boy.

Celebrating a little early at school

Favors for the party.

Guests.

Family

Is it time to play?

Acrobatics.

Tunnels.

A captive audience.

When all else fails, we cage them.

At circle time, Mina felt she deserved a spot in the limelight too.
"I'm his sister. Can I sit in the middle too?"

No time for sentiment now.. it's time for cake!

Which suits some of us just fine.

Five years. A sweet moment indeed.
8 comments:
I thought 5 was hard too. Then the other day lil J looked at me and said I'll be 7 soon. My heart sank. Where had my little boy gone?? I remember all the scares he gave me, the possible emergency surgery, severe GERD, being non-verbal way past a normal age, and I am so proud of how far he has came. Heck now he never shuts up. But what I wouldn't give for one more day with my baby. Aghhh the joy and heart break of them growing up. HAPPY BIRTHDAY JORDAN!!! I know you'll have many many more =)
I also wanted to thank you for starting to post again. I have been reading your blog, and now over here since I first heard about Jordan on the news. Seeing him grow up into a great big brother is such a blessing. I just wanted to thank you for sharing.
MJ
Happy Birtday Jordan!! You are becoming a handsome young man!! You will always be in our hearts. Sadaf I love that pic of Mina hugging Jordan at his school party, it brought tears to my eyes. So sweet!!
Happy 5th Birthday, Jordan! On the way home from your party, I couldn't stop saying "I can't believe how fast the time flew and our boys are five already". The first thing Julia said when she woke up yesterday was "Today is Jordan's party" and D and J weren't disappointed because your party rocked.
How sweet, indeed. Very happy birthday to Jordan - here's wishing him many, many more ahead!
Ash
Dear Jordan, Happy Birthday. Your Mom loves you. She is so proud of you. Excuse her when she looks at you with beaming pride.She is thinking of how sick you were and how hard you fought.Every single thing you do is extra special because you are doing it. You, who wasn't even supposed to be here. Mommy takes nothing for granted with you, and probably never will. So yes, she may weep a bit more than other moms at the ordinary milestones but she knows they are not ordinary at all. She sees in you the gift that you guys were given, and she is grateful.
Happy birthday from a CHD parent.
We understand:)
Happy Birthday!
Great pics of the celebrations!
Rani
Do you mind sharing from which store/website you got the cute sticky-back photopaper used to seal J's party favor boxes? How do find the time to discover these wonderful items with a full-time job and full-time family?
Rani
happy belated birthday jordan! i seriously can't believe you are 5!!! your mommy and daddy look the same, but you look older. :)
don't worry about the fairness of things...it will never even out, but hopefully the good will overcome all the bad.
~annie, joe & MINA!
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